Arguments happen, it’s just part of life. But I’ve noticed that most of them wouldn’t get nearly as bad if we all just took a second to calm down. half the time we’re not even mad about the thing we’re yelling about.
Things get solved way faster when we stay cool and talk instead of shout. No one feels attacked, and you’re way more likely actually to fix the issue. It only takes one person to set the tone, and that can make all the difference.
Next time things start to heat up, try slowing it down. A calm voice can go a long way.